
And, as time goes on, each mask gets flimsier, weaker, further and further from truth. But how does someone abandon their crumbling and pathetic heap of lies, when that is all they have ever stood on?

And, as time goes on, each mask gets flimsier, weaker, further and further from truth. But how does someone abandon their crumbling and pathetic heap of lies, when that is all they have ever stood on?


I have posted here and there about the difficulties I had after my mom died a few years ago. It was like I ran straight into a massive, sticky spider web, got woefully tangled, and simply couldn’t fight my way out of it.
What I haven’t written about yet is finally, FINALLY, pulling myself out of that web and slowly getting back onto my feet.
I’m still not quite where I would like to be, but I am getting closer, day by day. And after feeling all but hopeless and almost giving up on myself, it’s a triumph simply to be moving forward again instead of sinking further down.
I know that blogging is a dying art, but it occurred to me that sharing more of my story might actually help someone struggling with the same things. So once I figure out how to put some of this into words, I will be back to do just that.
In a few months, I hope to share a major personal victory. It will help put it into perspective to frame it with the struggles and internal warfare I battled through to get there. Until then, I take each day as it comes, put it the work and the effort required to create change, and I appreciate being here another day to see where this day takes me.


The countdown has dwindled to mere minutes before I pack up, straighten my desk, and head home from work. As soon as I pull into our driveway, I will leave the work week behind, kiss my husband hello, and finally start our weekend. Happy Friday!
I collect quotes on every topic under the sun, because I delight in stumbling across words put together in a way that express something I think or feel in a different way than I can say it. Sometimes it’s just for humor. Sometimes it’s to vent. And sometimes it’s just taking intense emotions and putting some of those feelings into words that nail it for me.
One of my favorite categories is love quotes. At the root of everything is love. Family, friends, pets, lovers, our hobbies…everything boils down to what makes our hearts happy and our capacity to share that with others.

Even more rare than genuine love is long-lasting love that stands the test of time.


Second only to love is the ability to laugh, to find humor in even unpleasant situations (and unpleasant people). Given that, I simply have to share this one, too:
