This is a powerful statement. There is nothing wrong with feeling distaste for people who elicit nothing but aversion. The trouble comes in when you let yourself fester in that dislike, when you pause your own growth because it takes so much energy to stare their groundless hate in the face and try to explain it, label it, make sense of it.
Thing is, it’s not my responsibility to wrestle someone else’s demons. I can’t possibly rationalize the irrational. And I don’t want to.
There are people in my life who bring me great happiness and love. I want to focus every bit of my attention on them. They deserve all of my time and all of my energy.
Other people are only truly capable of serving one positive purpose: teaching us, incontestably, how not to be. It can be a valuable lesson, if we are willing to learn.
Sweat & Sparkle 
Very good advice.
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I appreciate the love, peace, and happiness in my life so much more, watching certain other people do nothing but writhe in negativity and hatred and jealousy. If their only purpose is to remind me to never be like them, then it’s a lesson that has been well taught!
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She certainly has not moved on & at this point it is unlikely she will. Just don’t play into her games. So not worth it. Spend your time on the ones you love & move past her.
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