It’s not that I hate change, exactly. I just hate change that is completely out of my hands, beyond my control, and not what I wanted to happen.
I have been working from home since March 2020. At first I couldn’t stand it. I like to separate work from home, and it didn’t help that my old company sent us home with absolutely nothing. My work laptop had to stay in the office. It was absurd. They expected us to continue operating as if nothing had changed, but gave us nothing with which to do it.
When I left that job (thankfully) and started the one I am at now, they gave me everything I need to work from home, and I bought a desk and set up a comfy spot just for me to work during the day, that I could walk out of and leave work behind. My cat took to spending the day in that room with me, sometimes sprawling out on the desk and purring as he watched me type and scribble away.
My resistance to working from home quickly turned to acceptance and then love. I could stroll from my desk to the kitchen to get some water, pausing to watch birds at the birdfeeder. I could spend my lunch rocking on the front porch with a book. I could just enjoy the sleepy, hazy sun spilling through a window and appreciate the beauty of our home in a way I never had before.
Late last week, my supervisor dropped a bomb: we were all being called back to the office, as of Monday morning. I fought it, requested an exception, wanted to threaten to break kneecaps, but it didn’t take long to realize I was fighting a losing battle. It was back to an office, like it or not. (I didn’t).
So here we are with that I-don’t-like-change thing. It’s been a long week, adjusting to getting up early again, commuting, being away from home all day long. The first day, all I did was text my husband how much I missed him, that I love him, and that I wanted to come home. He said it was odd to come home for lunch without me there.
I haven’t worked out much this week. I feel shell-shocked, at the risk of sounding overly dramatic, but it was a huge change that popped out of nowhere, and I had to make it work with little notice. I will give myself a free pass this week to adjust to this, but next week, no more excuses. It’s called life. I need to just deal with it.
While change is in the air, though, I decided to update my blog a little bit, make it a little brighter. I love stained glass, but the old background looked a bit like a human sacrifice was imminent. I find this one to be a bit brighter and more cheerful.
I am excited for this weekend. I earned it this week! I will do some planning this weekend to make sure that next week is more successful, as far as diet and exercise go, than this past one.
Happy Friday!