Weekend

About this time of day on a Friday afternoon, I question how much work is actually getting accomplished around this entire office. All of us are already thinking about the weekend and getting out of here.

My husband texted me earlier, telling me he was ready to start our weekend. Me too! With so much to do during the week, I feel like we just don’t get enough time together.

We have a busy day lined up for tomorrow, but I am excited about it. I’d still like to sleep in a little bit if we can. I love waking up with no alarm clock, no particular place to be at any specific time, the day wide open ahead of us. Just rolling over, still sleepy, tucking back into his side, feeling his hands on my back or in my hair as we snuggle against each other.

Sunday could go either way. We kicked around some plans if it’s nice outside, but if it’s raining, I wouldn’t mind a peaceful day at home. Maybe sit on the porch again, rocking, holding hands, talking about anything and everything. Those days mean a lot to me. No, actually…they are everything to me.

Full Moon

Typically when my husband and I take a trip or attend an event, I like lots of lead time. I like to plan, research, draft an itinerary if necessary, sketch out every last detail. So when I saw an announcement of a full moon lighthouse climb only a day or two before the event, I thought, oh well. Maybe we’ll catch the next one.

Then I stopped and asked, why? Will the world stop spinning if we just go and don’t know every tiny piece of information first? So I mentioned it to my husband, and he was excited about it. That settled it: we were going!

Last night we stopped for a quick dinner and then headed out to the lighthouse. A band was playing, and a bonfire was snapping and crackling in the darkness. I went first up the lighthouse steps, and at first we were joking and talking, my husband slapping my butt playfully, but after what seemed like a million steep steps, we got a lot quieter, and I was wondering if we would ever reach the top!

We kept circling, winding our way up one step at a time. Someone had written “halfway there” on the wall, and then further up had added the note “Almost there!” The steps got even tinier and narrower, then finally, we were at the top.

There’s no describing the view from the top of that lighthouse. The full moon was glowing proudly, reflecting on the water in the distance, a silvery glint on the treetops. It was beautiful and peaceful.

My husband stood beside me silently, then reached for my hand on the railing. We were still out of breath from the climb, but it was very worth it. I felt dizzy from the height, and the walkway was extremely narrow, so we were standing practically on the edge by necessity. I’m not a fan of heights, but I didn’t want to leave, either. It was all too pretty.

From the top, we could see the glow of the bonfire, and we could see people walking around on the ground, so tiny. The circling light from the lighthouse danced across treetops. We could see the shimmer of the water, which looked like it was floating above the thick trees from that height.

On our way home from the lighthouse, my husband got excited about the big, bright moon reflecting off the water, so we pulled over and walked down to the beach. We stood together and enjoyed the beauty of the view, and we induldged in a few kisses (how could we not, in that setting?)

I admit I’ve been planning our summer trips since the fall, but now I feel inspired to maybe add just a few more spontaneous, “let’s-just-do-this” kind of things, too. When we look back over our lives together, years and years from now, I like the idea of being able to say, “Remember when we stood in the full moon at the top of a lighthouse?”

*Photo credit: Wrightsville Beach Full Moon Fever, taken by Lee Capps

The Best Trips

I adore this quote. I love taking trips and exploring new places with my husband, and long after we get back home, we are still excited and happy, talking about things we did, sharing pictures, kicking around ideas for our next trip…and honestly, just being happy to be home again!

We had a great time at the beach this past weekend. The waves were rougher than our last trip, and it was so much fun! We are not sit-on-our-butts-and-just-look-at-the-ocean people. We like to see, hear, feel, play with, and fully embrace the ocean. As soon as we had our umbrella and chairs set up, we took off for the water. We jumped in the waves until we needed to catch our breath, relaxed in our chairs until we were rested up, then ran back to the water, over and over.

On Saturday night, as we were getting dressed for dinner, my husband smiled and proudly showed me the new clothes he got just for our special dinner night, to surprise me. I had to laugh, because I had packed a special outfit, too, to surprise him!

When I slipped into my dress, though, something was obviously not right. I thought I had worn the dress fairly recently, but apparently it had been much longer than I remembered. I stepped in front of the mirror. The dress looked at least two sizes too big! I guess my newly refreshed love affair with running has eliminated some of my favorites from my closet, but there are certainly worse problems to have. I sure don’t mind having to go shopping soon!

In the meantime, however, that is how it came to be that my husband, in his new clothes, looking so handsome, ended up going out to a beach dinner with his jeans-and-tshirt wife, ha ha. Next time I will try on the dress before I put it in the suitcase!

This morning, not long after I got to work, my husband texted me a video of the sunrise we watched on the beach our first morning of our trip. I have watched it several times already. We weren’t ready for our weekend to be over yet, and I am already watching the clock, waiting to head home to my best buddy and wave-jumping partner!

Explore

I love to discover new places for my husband and me to explore, even if it’s just a new restaurant in a nearby town, a museum we have never visited, or a town we’ve passed through but never stopped in. Sometimes these excursions are misses, and we have no interest in going back, but most of the time, we find somewhere we’d like to visit again.

It’s funny, though, because even though both of us are open to exploring, we also strongly would prefer to go home to our own house each night! We love our home and just like being there, together. We both avoid crowds and noise, too. Every now and then we’ll venture out for an overnight or weekend trip somewhere, but for the most part, we are happiest right at home.

That means I have notes scribbled down of little day trips and weekend trips, locations to see, that we haven’t explored yet. I like researching a place, picturing ourselves there, getting excited if I find something that will make my husband smile. When we thoroughly enjoy something, like our beach trip a few weeks ago, I know we will be going back, and it gives us happy memories (and some cute pictures!)

What I appreciate most is that even if we visit somewhere that doesn’t quite live up to our expectations, we still have fun. We laugh about what we thought it would be compared to what it actually is, and we joke about it. We love just being together, and I am so glad that I found him, and that I have him at my side to share these little trips, and my life, with.

Fireworks

The 4th of July is one of my favorite holidays, right up there with Halloween. A large part of it is that I devour history books, and I have a particular fondness for critical players like George Washington and Alexander Hamilton, those with vision and dreams and a passion for this country. I like to recognize and honor the battles fought to become the United States of America in the first place.

Of course, another part of it is fireworks! My husband and I started a personal traditional years and years ago of taking a cooler, chairs, and plenty of sunscreen to a park nearby that launches fireworks for Independence Day. We are pros by now: we know what time to get there, where to park, the best place to set up our seats, which vendors to visit, which ones to skip, etc.

My older stepdaughter and her boyfriend joined us this year, and I enjoyed sharing this little tradition with them. Maybe it’s kind of silly, but our simple 4th of July tradition means a lot to me, so having them there with us and being a part of it made me happy.

This year, I wore a patriotic t-shirt that my husband got for me, and I love that he knows I can never have too many 4th of July shirts! He joked about being jealous of my star-spangled sunglasses and temporary tattoos, especially the one on my cheek. (Hey, I get into my favorite holidays!)

My stepdaughter complimented me and said I looked really good, and that made my night. I have focused this year on self-improvement and introspection and genuine, meaningful growth: not merely externally, but very much internally as well, and I believe it shows. Your heart shows through, and the truer you are, the brighter and more positive you are to others.

The night went by so quickly. I enjoyed it very much. Time to take down the red, white, and blue decorations and pack them away for next year…and start planning our Halloween decorations!

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