Ready for the Weekend

Is it just me, or has this week been roughly 400 million years long? I’ve been swamped at work and am more than ready for the weekend.

It’s going to be a scorcher here, pushing 100 degrees. Yuck! I hate summer. Except for some necessary yard work, I plan to hibernate in the air conditioning until the temperature can be considerably more considerate.

I keep glancing at the clock and tapping my foot impatiently, waiting for the moment I head home to start the weekend. I feel like I’ve barely seen my husband this week, so I am looking forward to our date night and just relaxing and spending time with him, without the interruptions of the work week. Just him, me…and some lovely air conditioning!

Thank you!

The World

Saturdays, most of the year, are dedicated to yard work. Both my husband and I enjoy plants and gardening, so we actually look forward to it (most of the time, anyway), and we chat during the week about what we would like to get done this weekend.

This past Saturday morning, though, we woke up to rain that promised to stick around for a while. We have a lot of yard work to do, thanks to windy storms passing through and making a mess, but I was secretly glad that we were rained out. I was ready for play time.

Out of the blue that afternoon, my husband asked me if I felt like going for a drive. We decided to head to a town about 90 minutes away for a late lunch/early dinner. As we were getting ready to leave, my husband hesitated and asked, “Is this silly? We’re driving an hour and a half to eat.”

I laughed and told him let’s just go for it. I figured we could find something else to do there to make the drive worthwhile.

Dinner was really good. We joked around and relaxed and just enjoyed ourselves. After we ate, we looked up what else is in the area, and we ended up making a few stops for shopping, picking up a few things that caught our eye, wandering wherever we felt like going next.

On the drive home, we saw a gorgeous sunset, brilliant red and deep pink streaked across darkened clouds. I took a few pictures from the truck to add to my collection of sunrise and sunset photos.

We had to make up for it by spending some time in the yard on Sunday, when the rain cleared, but I am still glad we spontaneously decided to head out and take a mini adventure. It was a lot of fun. My husband said that spending days like that with me means a lot to him, and I agree. It doesn’t sound like much to most people, I suppose, but days like that are the world to me.

Limping and Fishing

If this is true, then I am excessively educated! For almost half a year now, I have been plagued by either illness or injury. It kicked off with bronchitis right around Halloween, a hacking cough that persisted through Thanksgiving, a fun bout of flu over Christmas that I shared with my poor husband, and then a series of endless, odd injuries that have kept me hobbling, limping, and wincing.

Most recently, a clumsy accident left my knee swollen and stiff, and walking has been nearly impossible. I have steady relationships with ice packs and pain relievers, and a compression knee brace is my newest fashion accessory.

This past weekend, though, I felt healed up enough to venture outside with my husband. Yesterday was a beautiful day, and we decided to head out to the lake. Although he loves fishing, I somehow have never tried it, so he set up my new fishing pole and gave me my first lesson.

I admit, I did not expect to like it very much. Toss some bait into the water, then just stand there baking in the sun, sweating, waiting to see if a fish comes along…I didn’t see the point. But after I got the hang of casting my line, I can see how it is actually relaxing: the whir of the fishing line at it feeds out, the soft splash of the bait, then watching the rhythmic motion of the water as you reel the line back in, all the while surrounded by gently waving water, reflecting the puffy clouds and gorgeous blue sky.

I glanced over at my husband as he cast his line, and I could plainly see how much he enjoys fishing. He patiently showed me everything he was doing, talked about bass and bait fish and different kinds of fishing, moving his line easily through the water like he was steering it, and I could tell he was in his element. He was happy.

The first time that I tossed out my line, and it actually sailed out freely, smoothly, like maybe I knew what I was doing, I excitedly turned to see if he had seen it. He was smiling over his shoulder, reeling in his own line but keeping an eye on me, too.

He joked about me having a talent for getting the fishing line in a tangle, but he showed me (more than once…okay, a lot) how to free the line and get back to business. I think he really enjoyed watching me learn a hobby he has loved for years. He kept tentatively asking if I was done and wanted to leave, and he seemed so happy when I would say no, I wasn’t ready to go yet. I wanted to cast again.

I’m not sure why it took us so long to go fishing together. I’m just very glad we did.

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