One of the most difficult changes I’ve made during this weight loss journey is cutting way back on soda. I love soda. I could drink it all day long, and drink nothing else…and for a long time, that’s exactly what I did. I was consuming hundreds of empty calories each day just by chugging soda.
When my older stepson bought me a Yeti travel mug, I decided to start brewing unsweet tea at home and take it to work with me in my new insulated cup. It’s awesome! My tea stays cold, even sitting on my desk all day long. Now I drink much more tea than soda.
So when my husband came home the other day with a bottle of Coke for me, I honestly wondered what in blazing hell was wrong with him. Didn’t he know how hard it is for me to say no to soda? Didn’t he care how hard I’ve been working to make healthy changes and lose this weight? What was he trying to do, anyway? Sabotage me?
He smiled at me and asked, “Did you read the name that is on the Coke bottle?”
I hadn’t even noticed. I had shoved the Coke behind my tea pitcher in the fridge, hoping that out of sight would also be out of mind.
My husband is a bit of a smartass (okay, a LOT smartass), and we pick on each all the time. So I figured the Coke bottle probably said something like “Poopy Head” or “Grumpy” or “Shorty”, something that he would laugh about and tease me about.
Well, I was quite wrong. The label on the Coke said “My Love”:

My husband said, “I thought of you when I saw it.”
How could I be mad about that? I couldn’t! I thanked him for the Coke and gave him a kiss. Then headed out for a run, because hey, these pounds aren’t going to lose themselves!
Most people are probably bustling around, frantically planning a Thanksgiving meal, calculating how many pies to bake, pondering which relatives to avoid sitting near each other, and strategizing their big grocery store trip…while I am mostly concerned about not gaining weight over Thanksgiving.